Private coaching

Body-based coaching, one to one.

Coaching for anyone ready to change how they connect — without pressure, judgment, or a script. We work with awareness, sensation, breath, nervous-system regulation, and attention. Insight comes through experience, not analysis.

You’re not broken, and nothing here is about performance. Wherever you’re starting from, you’re welcome.

Book a Desire Diagnostic Call

Free · 30 minutes · no pressure, no pitch.

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The Desire Diagnostic Call

A 30-minute clarity conversation. Low or absent desire is rarely about one thing — together we name what’s actually in the way, and whether this work is right for you. No pressure, no pitch.

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Desire killers

Chronic stress, performance pressure, emotional disconnection, rushing, and past experiences that make it hard to relax.

Desire builders

Presence during intimacy, attunement to a partner’s responses, clear communication, and nourishing touch.

This is for you if…

  • You want to slow down and build real skill, not chase performance.
  • Desire has changed — yours or your partner’s — and you want to understand why.
  • You struggle to stay present, with arousal, or with performance pressure.
  • You’re willing to practice between sessions, and value confidentiality.

It’s not for you if…

  • You’re looking for a quick fix or a bag of techniques.
  • You want to change your partner without changing how you show up.
  • You’d rather analyse intimacy than actually feel it.

How it works

A considered, unhurried container.

1:1 Coaching

A private monthly rhythm

  • Three 1-hour private sessions each month
  • One integration week to practice and absorb
  • Three-month minimum, then month to month
  • Released from the agreement any time the fit isn’t right
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Group coaching

A small six-month cohort

  • Six months, weekly group calls on Zoom
  • A small circle of 10–18 people
  • Learn alongside others doing the same work
  • Opens Fall 2026 — ask about the waitlist
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Coaching is booked through a conversation, not a checkout. Every engagement begins with the free Desire Diagnostic Call — and the investment is shared there, once we both know it’s a fit.

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